Personal development can feel disorientating at times.
Like wandering through unfamiliar terrain without knowing which way to turn.

That’s where maps come in.

A good map can’t walk the path for you but it can show you where you are.
It can help you get a sense of direction, name the terrain, and understand what’s unfolding.

It can make the invisible feel more visible which can make the journey clearer.

Because when you understand yourself better and understand the stage you're at,
you can stop blaming yourself for not being further ahead and you can stop comparing your pace to others’.
You can start walking your own path with more self-compassion, more clarity, and more choice.

Here is the important thing to remember though;
Maps can’t replace experience.
They can point the way, but they can’t prepare you for what it will feel like to actually walk it.
To meet the weather and see its changes.
To carry what’s yours and to let go of what no longer fits.

Maps give structure.
Walking the way gives wisdom.

Both matter.

In my work, I’ve found that having a developmental map, a way of making sense of where you are, is one of the most powerful tools for growth.
But only if it’s held lightly.
With space to walk at your own pace and to allow path to unfold in its own time.

So if you’ve been feeling lost, stuck, or unsure, remember that you don’t need to push harder.
Maybe you just need a better map, and the courage to keep on walking.

With love,
Debbie

PS - If you want a map for your development - my new eBook is available now - "Deliberately Developing Your Self". It's your guide to how adults grow up and develop themselves. It will help you understand your struggles and your opportunities for stretch. Deliberately Developing Your Self eBook